Outside vs. Inside

[jiggypig528]

Hi!!!
Okay, so here's the deal. I'll be getting a basenji puppy in a few months. I want a boy and I will name him Charlie. :D Yay!!! BUT it may have to live outside. Sooo what are the pros and cons for a basenji living outside? Should I try to convince my parents to let him live inside? Is inside or outside better? Help!

[phoenix3]

IMO No dog should live outside however ur talking about a Basenji IMO U can't have a Basenji live outside there not a dog that is going to do well with that . They need to be near there family !! I can gaurenteee that if u get a Basenji and have him/her living outside u will have ALOT of issues with him Please Don't get a dog if u need him to live outside!!

[jiggypig528]

IMO No dog should live outside however ur talking about a Basenji IMO U can't have a Basenji live outside there not a dog that is going to do well with that . They need to be near there family !! I can gaurenteee that if u get a Basenji and have him/her living outside u will have ALOT of issues with him Please Don't get a dog if u need him to live outside!!

Okay, Okay, jeez sorry! Not my fault; my parents'! I do want it to live inside, but...you know....parents are just like that (At least with me). I was just saying because my mom's friend has a basenji that lives outside and is all happy playful and overall a good dog. So whatever I say she'll be all like "Well so-and-so has a basenji that lives outside and it's perfectly fine blah blah blah." But thanks anyways for the comment. The more people that reply to the thread and say 'No, have it live inside.' the better argument I have for it living inside. So, people, reply! REPLY!

[MacPack]

Many of the 'escaping' basenji problems involve basenjis outside alone, and bored. In a place with perfect weather and a snuggly 'dog house', and a very secure yard, AND a companion for fun and play, it might be OK.

But...basenjis are pack animals and want to be with their pack, either human or canine. To put a single dog in a yard alone, to be played with for maybe an hour a day, is pretty sad to me. I assume you are living at home, possibly a student. You are probably gone all day, and you sleep all night, will you spend 5 or 6 hours every afternoon outside with the basenji?

If you know a nice basenji, I know how much you must want one of your own. But please think about waiting till you have your own place, if you can't get your parents involved in wanting a basenji as a 'family member'. They are very bright dogs and deserve lots of stimulation and interaction.

If you were rescuing an abused dog, then a good life 'outside' might be far better than what they had, but deliberately getting a pup, well, IMHO it deserves to be a loved family member...by everyone in the family. Believe me, if everyone doesn't want a puppy, there will be issues!

Anne

[Vicki]

Okay, Okay, jeez sorry! Not my fault; my parents'! I do want it to live inside, but...you know....parents are just like that (At least with me). I was just saying because my mom's friend has a basenji that lives outside and is all happy playful and overall a good dog. So whatever I say she'll be all like "Well so-and-so has a basenji that lives outside and it's perfectly fine blah blah blah." But thanks anyways for the comment. The more people that reply to the thread and say 'No, have it live inside.' the better argument I have for it living inside. So, people, reply! REPLY!

I find this very disturbing. I just adopted a Basenji that was kept outside and its home was a tool shed. The dog had no other companions and was alone far too much. My new Basenji was given up by her owners at 9 months old, because they didn't spend any time with the dog and it didn't socialize well. The dog didn't appear to like them! Basenjis need company, companionship, and lots of attention. Are you going to be able to train it and spend lots of time with your Basenji?

Why are you getting a Basenji puppy when you still live at home and can't do what you want with your pet? To be honest, it sounds like you are too young and not independent enough to own a Basenji. Sorry, but that is the way I see it.

[ChaseandZahrasmom]

IMO having an outside dog is not a humane thing to do especially to a Basenji. Dogs are pack animals and should be with their pack which includes the humans, DH is not crazy about our two sleeping in our bed so they do spend the night in their crates and also are in their crates while we are at work but they are out when we are at home acting just like another member of the family (Chase even pre-washes dishes sometime :) ).

[lvoss]

All dogs have 6 basics needs that must be met the first 3 are the ones everyone can name easily - Food, water, shelter. The second 3 are just as important and are the ones most neglected in dogs banished to outside living - Physical Exercise, Mental Stimulation, and Companionship.

Basenjis need human companionship. They need to know they belong and they need to be with their humans. In rescue, most of the basenjis that I helped to rehome were dogs that had all developed behavior issues due to be kept isolated from their humans either being kept in the backyard or in the garage. Some of the nuisance behaviors that they were surrendered for were escaping, non-stop fire engine loud howling, digging, chewing through drywall, destroying the fence, and ripping up landscaping. These dogs were rehomed where they became cherished members of the family but many always had issues with separation anxiety because of their early starts.

IMO if you are not in a situation where you can keep a basenji indoors as part of your family then you are not in a situation to bring a basenji home. If anyone in the household is not completely on board with the idea of owning a dog as a household companion then you have already created an atmosphere that is difficult to raise a puppy into a well adjusted adult. It is really hard to wait for the right time to own a dog but it is not fair to the dog if you can not provide them with the level of socialization as part of the family that they require for their mental health.

[sharronhurlbut]

Well said.
Dogs need to be with their people, when the people are home.
If you can't give a dog the companion ship it needs as well as the time it needs, its best you wait to get a dog...ANY dog.
They are not yard art...they need to be part of a family.

[BasenjiByTheBay]

Very well put, lvoss.

[mauigirl]

I agree with all of the above. Unless you're going to "hang out" outside when you're home, you should probably try your best to convince your parents that the dog will live both inside and outside. You need to be clear about this from the very very start esp taking into account potty training. I haven't myself tried to housetrain a puppy that's 5,6,7 months old after it was strictly outside until then, but I imagine it would be a bigger challenge than if the B was housetrained consistently from the time it came to live with you.

Also..how to say this....I do believe that most people here, people who belong to a forum dedicated to their breed, are the same people for the most part whose daily lifestyles are directly affected/influenced/shaped by the dog that "owns" them. I think that a lot of these changes in lifestyle have to do with sharing your physical space, i.e. the inside. I assume most of us here were happy to make these adjustments and so have a hard time wrapping our heads around the idea of a strictly outside dog.
I don't know why your parents would rather not have the dog inside, could be many reasons. I would think that of all breeds, one that doesn't have doggy smell, doesn't take up much space, doesn't drool, doesn't bark, etc, would be easier to live with than most. They are notorious for being destructive, that just means you adjust: you always have something acceptable for them to chew on and you learn to pick up your stuff. And the trash has a lid or is behind a closed door, food isn't left on the table.....
And you make time every single day to ensure that they get enough exercise so that they don't channel that energy into destruction.

I suppose I was trying to explain the reaction you're likely to get here....don't know if I made sense?

-Nicki

(apparently Liz has started posting to the forum, so Carrie/Andrew style we're going to be sort of confusing and post under the same name...)

[tanza]

Okay, Okay, jeez sorry! Not my fault; my parents'! I do want it to live inside, but...you know....parents are just like that (At least with me). I was just saying because my mom's friend has a basenji that lives outside and is all happy playful and overall a good dog. So whatever I say she'll be all like "Well so-and-so has a basenji that lives outside and it's perfectly fine blah blah blah." But thanks anyways for the comment. The more people that reply to the thread and say 'No, have it live inside.' the better argument I have for it living inside. So, people, reply! REPLY!

Just because one person has a Basenji (or any dog for that matter) that they believe is "just" fine outdoors doesn't make it right. I can tell you as a breeder the I would never place a pup that was going to be made to live outdoors... not ever.... in fact they must have access to a climate controled area day/night. A dog is a family companion all the time, which to me means it lives with the family, not shut outdoors.... I totally agree that maybe this is not the right time for you to get a pup.

[tanza]

Does this puppy's breeder know that this pup will be living outside?

[phoenix3]

Hmm just a thought how about a cute fuzzy clean little Hamster ? :)

[nomrbddgs]

IMO these dogs should, and need, to live indoors with human interaction. Don't forget these dogs are not like others and, I believe, need constant interaction. Not just a couple hours a day. These dogs will regress very quickly and will (or can) become pariah very easily. As Lisa says, these dogs, unless they have constant human interaction have anxiety and separation issues when they are rehomed. If your parents will not allow you to keep this dog indoors, don't get it. And as Pat says, even if I lived in a year-round warm area, I would never allow my pup to be adopted to a home in an outdoor living arrangement.

While your parent's friend may have that dog outside, you see it once in awhile and it is ecstatic for a little human interaction. I would bet dollars to donuts that if you spent a little more time with that dog, inside or out, you would find some issues you would never want to deal with. Sorry, JMO

[tanza]

A little information, first hand about dogs made to live outdoors.... I placed a pup with a family, was totally assured the dog would be indoors except when they were are work, but provisions made to include a doggy door in the family room with an xpen, so that the pup could be out if they wanted or if the weather was cold/rainy etc., had a climate control area to be in. I even personally checked this out... Only to find out months later that the pup was living in the backyard with only the garage as shelter (not heated or insulated)... I was to be sure furious... when I confronted the owner I was told this was because they couldn't housetrain him.. ??? I asked have you really tried? You know you have to expect accidents?... housetraining doesn't happen overnight. They also had a older Chihuahua (that was also not housetrained) and I was told that the pup played to rough... I told them, we talked about that... and what to do to help the situation (as it turned out they were really both fine, but both played rough.. and there was lots of noise)... End result was a Basenji in very poor coat condition (and remember we are in No. Cal (bay area) and typically have mostly decent weather).. totally unsocialized, wild, unsure about people, barely leash trained... I could go on and on... Bottom line, I told them either the dog is intergrated into the family and the house or they should consider re-homing.... Answer.. oh but we love him?.. HUH??? he lived outdoors, you were never outdoors,... a quick hello, pat on the head, food and water doesn't cut it.... As it turned out the parents seperated and she had to move and couldn't take the boy.. thankgoodness for that and that my contract said that the boy comes back to me, period.. and no they can't sell him.... And believe me, it was a struggle to get him straighten out...
Moral of the story... in this case I didn't know this was going to happen and this could happen to any breeder... however, if I would have known up front that this was going to be the case, I would have never placed a pup with this person....

[mauigirl]

We are also living with my father for a bit since we moved from california. At first he was TOTALLY against the idea of 2 dogs in the house but he very quickly relented. Now he adores our tri boy and is constantly slipping him watermelon treats. We do have a pretty large back yard and when it's warm outside the dogs hang out there on their dog bed. They love it out there because they can chase rabbits, chipmunks, and other furry creatures. But we also go outside and play with them alot (Riley even plays fetch!) and they also spend a good amount of time inside with us. So they're 1/4-outdoor 3/4-indoor doggies. Since it's gotten colder they are only indoor doggies. So I think that a happy medium can be attained. IMO dogs have more stimulation and get more excercise while outside but that is not a replacement for human contact. It also helps that we have 2 basenjis so they are never alone. And they always get a long walk or go to the dog park in the evening.

Perhaps you can bargain with your parents. They might be just afraid that they'll be solely responsible for the dog or, as my dad puts it, the dog will "be a ball and chain". If you can't bargain with them then try to put off getting a dog for a bit. Another really cool and unique pet is a hedgehog.


Liz

[lvoss]

IMO dogs have more stimulation and get more excercise while outside but that is not a replacement for human contact.


I am sorry to disagree about the more stimulation and excercise but having done rescue and voluteered at my shelter and seeing dogs from these situations this is absolutely not true. Most outside dogs are only getting enough physical exercise if they are being allowed to indulge in bad behaviors like fence running or some of the nuisance behaviors that I discussed before. Most dogs get the most postive exercise when they are interacting with their humans and playing with their housemates. The only way an outdoor dog is getting more mental stimulation than an indoor dog with regular human contact is because it is inventing ways to entertain itself which in almost all cases is going to result in an unhappy human. When I talk about a dog needing mental stimulation they need to work their brains, either through short training sessions, games, or interactive toys.

I do think that owners have many options for outdoor activities with their dogs to fulfill the need for exercise and mental stimulation but that human interaction is key to insuring that these are positive outlets and not contributing to nuisance behaviors.

[gbroxon]

IMO, if your parents are requiring that the dog be outside, don't get a dog.

[mauigirl]

"The only way an outdoor dog is getting more mental stimulation than an indoor dog with regular human contact is because it is inventing ways to entertain itself which in almost all cases is going to result in an unhappy human. When I talk about a dog needing mental stimulation they need to work their brains, either through short training sessions, games, or interactive toys."


I think you misinterpreted what I was saying. I do not think that a dog should only be an outside dog. But dogs that are kept only indoors are missing out on exploring new scents and being in their natural habitat, not to mention finding that perfect sunspot that alot of my rooms do not have. I am perfectly happy to see my dogs sprint out of the sliding glass door in order to try to catch a squirrel and watching their differing plans of attack. As for mental stimulation outside they have plenty of fun games that are played outside with them. And honestly, not all inside dogs have stimulation. I agree that when a dog is ONLY left outside they can engage in behaviors that could be detrimental to their health and the sanity of their owners. But keeping them locked inside is just as detrimental. Destructive behaviors are a sign of that. Dogs should be able to explore and have quality time with their humans. And training is a key part of that. I think the problem is thinking in absolutes: only inside, only outside. A happy medium can be arranged for us lucky enough to enjoy a warmer climate for the majority of the year.


Liz

[lvoss]

This thread is about keeping a dog as an outdoor only dog. Everyone here who uses the term indoor dog does not mean that their dogs do not have access to the outdoors in either the form of daily walks or access to a yard. I consider the term indoor dog to mean a dog that spends the majority of its time with its humans where ever they might be, indoors or outdoors. I consider the term outdoor dog to mean a dog that lives away from its humans most of the time even if that time is spent in a garage or shed, it is the separation from humans that is the distinction.

I absolutely think that there are worthwhile activities for dogs outdoors but I do not think that simply opening a door and putting them outside fulfills their need for mental stimulation and physical exercise and can not be relied on as the primary means of providing these.

[mauigirl]

I totally agree. walks and dog parks (if you go to those) are vital to a dogs exercise. it just so happens that i have a large backyard that my dogs play with each other in and do b500s so it is added exercise. I was only suggesting that she attempt to bargain with her parents so as to come to some sort of arrangement that allows the dog to be inside for the majority of the time. Most people can be persuaded or bargained with. You just have to find the correct method and be persistent.


"Everyone here who uses the term indoor dog does not mean that their dogs do not have access to the outdoors in either the form of daily walks or access to a yard. I consider the term indoor dog to mean a dog that spends the majority of its time with its humans where ever they might be, indoors or outdoors. I consider the term outdoor dog to mean a dog that lives away from its humans most of the time even if that time is spent in a garage or shed, it is the separation from humans that is the distinction."

Perhaps her parents do not realize those distinctions. Just because everyone here knows them (presumably) does not mean that people off of this forum or non-dog people do.

[lvoss]

IME, if a member of the household is truly not happy with the idea of an indoor dog there is no amount of persuasion or bargaining that is going to change that. What I see is very much the sort of situation that Pat described in her post about the family who was keeping the dog in the backyard because of "housetraining issues".

[mauigirl]

How long has she been discussing this with her parents? If it's been a while and they are still staunchly against it then it is a bad idea. But other times it is just a knee-jerk reaction and fear that they will be the ones taking care of the dog. As i said before, my father was very against the idea of having two indoor doggies and grumbled about it to no end. But now he adores the dogs and takes care of them when we are not at home during the day sometimes. Maybe mine is just a cinderella story but maybe her parents are just trying to scare her into not getting a dog.


And as for Pat's story, if this girl thinks that her parents are truly capable of doing that to a dog (and not just bluffing) then no way should she get one until the situation changes.


Sorry LVOSS if i'm coming off confrontational. I might just be in one of those contrary or debating moods. Nicki doesn't like to debate with me :rolleyes:

[tanza]

I would still like to know if the breeder knows about this potential problem....

And with my story, I think that the husband had the problem (even though he had visited the house a number of times and never gave any indication).. but in the end, if everyone is not on board.. the animal will take the fall out.

[lvoss]

I haven't taken it to be confrontational, but after doing dog evaluations for rescue and seeing this situation over and over again, and then working at my local shelter and seeing it there over and over again it is definitely the exception that if someone is truly against the idea that they will have a radical change of opinion.

On the other hand, if the person is really more on the fence but with a leaning to one side, often they can change their mind. Or if the person is gradually exposed to the opposing view.

As an example, when I was in high school, I very much wanted a purebred dog. I wanted to do junior handling, 4-H and all of that. I had researched breeds and dragged my mom to dog shows and we went to breeder's houses. At that time my mom just couldn't understand the whole thing about the price, the care, etc. As much as I wanted that, there was no amount of information, bargaining, convincing that I could do to get my mom to understand.

When I moved out on my own I got my purebred dog and he would go with us on vacation and my mom would come and watch me show him and over time she came to understand and appreciate that different point of view. So much so that when she moved to Southern California and was missing having family around and didn't have enough to keep her busy that she decided to give dog showing a try. By then even my dad's view of dogs had changed since he was one who said, never will a dog be in my bed and yet the first night Cole was there he was in the bed because "the poor puppy was cold". It was because their attitude had changed gradually as they interacted with my dogs and saw the difference in quality of life my dogs had that they came around even though all the ways I tried when I was in high school didn't work.

[mauigirl]

Perhaps her parents think that dogs should be outside since they're dogs. The whole "they're animals and that's where they're supposed to be" thing. Some people really don't know better unfortunately and don't mean to be malicious. Maybe educating the parents would be the best thing. Perhaps her mom sees the other dog being an "outside" dog and thinks that that is the way things are done.

[renaultf1]

How long has she been discussing this with her parents? If it's been a while and they are still staunchly against it then it is a bad idea. But other times it is just a knee-jerk reaction and fear that they will be the ones taking care of the dog. As i said before, my father was very against the idea of having two indoor doggies and grumbled about it to no end. But now he adores the dogs and takes care of them when we are not at home during the day sometimes. Maybe mine is just a cinderella story but maybe her parents are just trying to scare her into not getting a dog.

Liz, I can see one big difference with your outcome and the potential outcome of this...you are an adult...you understand responsibility. If your father hadn't come around, because you were already responsible for your dogs, you would still have been the one handling all the care of the dog. In a situation with a kid that has to convince a parent that the dog can be an indoor dog, I would say there are some major red flags. It really sounds like the parents don't want to be involved with the dog. What happens if the parents don't come around and the kid still gets the dog...the dog is the one that pays the price when the kid goes off with his friends, plays sports after school, etc. And thinking of that outcome makes me very sad. :(

[mauigirl]

If she thinks that the parents won't come around then she shouldn't get the dog. That is why she should discuss it and lay out her argument before the fact. If it seems hopeless then don't get the pup. But there's no harm in attempting to make a well thought-out argument and see exactly where the parents are coming from. Does anyone know how old this "kid" is? I think that might be of importance also.


I'm only 24....i like to think of myself as an overgrown kid.:D

[sharronhurlbut]

I don't know if we have heard from this poster since the first post...have we?

[tanza]

I don't know if we have heard from this poster since the first post...have we?

The poster made two posts yesterday... and I have not seen them back.... sad... especially because they are in my area... only about 20 miles away...

Of course could have been someone looking to get a "rise" out of us.....

[sharronhurlbut]

Well Pat, if you could get them over to visit your home and see how b's should be, it would be a kindness for all involved.
Maybe they will come visit.

[tanza]

Well Pat, if you could get them over to visit your home and see how b's should be, it would be a kindness for all involved.
Maybe they will come visit.

Yes, but they would have to contact me.... that has not happened...

[sharronhurlbut]

Well, I so hope they do.
Thank you for the offer.
Hugs

[Andrew]

(apparently Liz has started posting to the forum, so Carrie/Andrew style we're going to be sort of confusing and post under the same name...)

Copydog...

[dmcarty]

A basenji left alone outside will 'sing' - while some of us find it endearing and makes us giggle - some neighbors are not as amused. So in addition to all the other reasons - a lonely basenji will tell you that he is lonely and that will be very unpleasant - when the neighbors call to complain.

[mauigirl]

To the original poster:

I'm really curious as to how you have received our responses and the effect, if any, this thread has had on your ongoing discussion with your parents. You did suggest that replies of this sort would help you convince them that a new member of the family ought to spend time inside with all of you. Please keep us updated and consider arranging a visit with Tanza. It would be a smart decision to meet as many B's as possible and see how they "fit" in several households/lifestyles before bringing one home.

[Quercus]

<<The only way an outdoor dog is getting more mental stimulation than an indoor dog with regular human contact is because it is inventing ways to entertain itself which in almost all cases is going to result in an unhappy human.>>

Truer words were never spoken...not that any of our dogs are outdoor dogs...but since we run them in separate groups, sometimes they spend time outside when they wish they were inside.

How about someone ask me why my land line phone doesn't work at all? Huh, just ASK me!!! Grrrrr :/ It involves a mother and son pulling the phone cable out from the siding, and chewing it in various places. Hard to blame that on the phone company!

[nomrbddgs]

<<
How about someone ask me why my land line phone doesn't work at all? Huh, just ASK me!!! Grrrrr :/ It involves a mother and son pulling the phone cable out from the siding, and chewing it in various places. Hard to blame that on the phone company!


Awwww, c'mon, a little harmless play never hurt anyone!

[tanza]

Exactly Andrea... I have seen "houses" that have the look of giant termites... for lack of stimulation.
Remember that a dog seeking attention will do whatever they can that gains that attention. Certainly behaving doesn't work, as the people just leave the dog alone. However bad behavior gets the desired results... even if it is negative attention... it is still attention

[dmcarty]

YOu know this reminds me of when we got hooked in to city water and the were going to run a wire to the meter at the side of the house from the intake in the back of the house. I told them you should run it through the house - I have a suspended ceiling - it'll be easier and THE DOGS CAN'T GET IT.

They puffed up and said the were going to tuck it up under the siding and no dogs could get it. I said - you don't know these dogs and insistented in their arrogant city worker way. So I told them this: "When the dog chew through the wire - I will not call you so when you see the meter not running - figure it out.

Took 2 days for the dogs to explore it and 5 min to rip it down and chew through it. AND my dogs are only out unattended for potty time AM and PM. So it was not even they were bored being out there for hours on end.

The guys came back and - can you believe it - they insisted on doing the same thing. To which I said - fine you do that - and then wait in the truck for 10 min and lets see what happens. Only took 5 min so then they ran the wire through the house.

[wizard]

Jiggypig - haven't heard from you recently about this situation. Have you talked with your parents about the indoor-outdoor situation? Are you still wanting a basenji?
I wonder if you have really seriously talked with your parents about getting a dog. Are they supportive of you having a dog in the first place (not even talking yet about indoors/outdoors)? Are you willing to handle the true responsibility of caring for a dog (any dog)?
Just checking.

[jiggypig528]

Alright, people, alright! Please, please, give me a break. It's not my fault that my mom wants it to be an outside dog! She thinks that if it's an inside dog it will chew everything, that's it! So I'm sorry if this thread "disturbs" you or it's considered "inhumane". I personally don't believe that dogs should live outside, but I'm only 13! My parents don't listen to me.

Now, I know that everyone here loves Basenjis, but some of the comments here are just mean. Okay, not mean, but as if like "What the heck are you thinking? Are you out of your mind?" I don't want my dog to live outside, okay? Don't get mad at me.

This may seem like an "it's not my fault comment" but it's not. I just wanted the pros and cons of having a dog inside or outside. I'm sorry...

[jiggypig528]

Oh, and to 'wizard'. Yes, we have talked about it and they support it completely. And I mean seriously talked about it. And, yes, I am ready fro the responsibility of a dog.

[tanza]

Again I would ask, does the breeder you plan on getting a puppy from know that this pup would be made to be an outdoor dog?
And honestly... this is not a good option for a Basenji at all..... There are NO "pros" for keeping a dog outside... even in California...

[JazzysMom]

Alright, people, alright! Please, please, give me a break. It's not my fault that my mom wants it to be an outside dog! She thinks that if it's an inside dog it will chew everything, that's it!

You need to understand that a Basenji kept outside can also do a lot of damage. Wall corners and edges can be chewed, as can garden hoses, faucet heads, furniture, fences - they really can be quite resourceful in their choices and in finding ways to chew the most incredible things in ridiculous places.

Just because your friend's Basenji doesn't appear to have such inclinations, doesn't mean yours will not. I have two -- one doesn't chew much of anything and never really did, the other chews everything he can get his teeth on. Some of the things they can chew outside can wind up being more costly to repair than things inside.

Also, you need to consider the noise. If your pup wants in, he will let everyone in the ENTIRE neighborhood know that he is NOT happy.
It is not uncommon for Basenji owners' neighbors to call the police because the screaming sounds like a human child is being abused -- and that is when the dog is INSIDE! :eek: Outside, the sound will travel much farther and be far more disturbing to the neighbors.

Considering your age, I cannot help but wonder if this is a good idea. The dog will live 12 - 15+ yrs. You cannot know now where your life will lead you -- college? Do your folks want to keep the dog while you are in a dorm? shakey job market? Will you be able to afford the care of the dog, esp as it ages and possibly develops medical issues? Maybe you will have problems finding an apartment you can afford that allows dogs.

LOTS of things to consider.

[mauigirl]

Wow I had pretty much concluded that you were never coming back as it's been awhile. I have to admit I had an adverse reaction to your age...BUT a second later I realized that it very easily becomes a slippery slope sort of thing as I'm only 24.
This basenji will officially be your dog yes? But Mom and Dad will pay for most everything? But you're expected to take care of it?
Do you think they're worried that they will get stuck with most of the care?
I think it will be a much happier situation for all involved if it's equally everyone's dog and everyone is equally committed. I just imagine the poor pup chewing something important to Mom and/or Dad and you get yelled at because YOUR dog chewed something that shouldn't have been on the floor to begin with. But maybe you didn't pick it up because it wasn't yours...but the reality is if it's your dog and living inside you will be the housekeeper. How to put this....I see the potential for some issues with these circumstances of different ideas of what dog ownership means coupled with the fact that they pay the mortgage or rent and ultimately call the shots.

[mauigirl]

Considering your age, I cannot help but wonder if this is a good idea. The dog will live 12 - 15+ yrs. You cannot know now where your life will lead you -- college? Do your folks want to keep the dog while you are in a dorm? shakey job market? Will you be able to afford the care of the dog, esp as it ages and possibly develops medical issues? Maybe you will have problems finding an apartment you can afford that allows dogs.

LOTS of things to consider.

Really well put....all this crossed my mind also. The whole college thing....gosh I could never have had a dog while I was in college, I mean really, they kept me so busy. I also didn't have a car the first two years, I lived on campus and needless to say no pets allowed in the dorms.

[lvoss]

You are in a really tough position. It sounds like you really want to do what is needed to be a responsible pet owner but that your parents aren't really in the same place as you are. As has been pointed out basenjis live into their teens. It really sounds like though your parents are supportive you having a dog they don't necessarily want the responsibility of a dog. What will happen when you go to college? If you are the dog's primary caregiver and can not take the dog with you, what will happen to it? It is very hard to rehome older dogs and hard on the dog to be uprooted from the family they know and love.

[sharronhurlbut]

Sorry you think folks have been mean. It's tough not hearing anything positive.
But really I have to agree with all the others who posted.

[etzbseder]

I would have to recommend putting off getting the dog for now as well. I have nothing wrong with your age, and schooling by itself, but It is a HUGE issue if your parents aren't on the same page. I have my own apartment, and still have issues with my parents' dog ownership ideas. They have owned dogs for over 30 years each, and yet, they don't quite understand the need to have a dog be a true part of the family and not just an back lawn living ornament.

I can't imagine not having Medjai the last two years, and know I can afford him and take care of him up to several thousand dollars for medical care a couple times before I get a better job after graduation. I have been lucky with the expenses so far, but I could easily see how taking care of my one dog could cost upwards of $5000 at the vet the last year and a half without any extremely major things like some of our unlucky members have run into.

Give yourself time to get a place of your own, and see how much time you have. Take a look at learning more about dogs in general, as well as Basenji specifics, and then look at getting a dog again, if it still fits your situation.

[tanza]

You are in a really tough position. It sounds like you really want to do what is needed to be a responsible pet owner but that your parents aren't really in the same place as you are. As has been pointed out basenjis live into their teens. It really sounds like though your parents are supportive you having a dog they don't necessarily want the responsibility of a dog. What will happen when you go to college? If you are the dog's primary caregiver and can not take the dog with you, what will happen to it? It is very hard to rehome older dogs and hard on the dog to be uprooted from the family they know and love.

And as said they can and do live well into their teens. And it gets tough with elders. I have 3 elders now, one that will be 14 in December, one that will be 16 in February and one that was 17 last September. The 17 yr old is really showing his age and has problems holding his bladder... and there is no possible way he could survive outdoors. The coming 16 yr old will be having surgery next week for a mass/tumor on her Adrenal Gland... and believe me, it will not be cheap... are you prepared for that?... As others have said, if you are only 13, this pup will be only 5 or 6 when it is time for you to go off to college... what happens then? Your parents will become the caretakers all day, every day? Do you think this is really a wise choice?

[wizard]

Jiggypig, since you said your parents were okay with getting a dog - what kind of dog breed do they see having around the house? Are they willing to help take care of the dog (whatever kind it is)? We want to be supportive of you but we are only hearing your side of the story - not your parents' side. We're are not against you getting a dog - we're just concerned for you and what you may be in for and for the dog. Several of the folks here are/were involved in rescuing dogs and have seen what can happen when things don't go as planned. [and you have to remember you are only seeing our words here not us - sometimes words alone don't convey the entire message, facial expressions help convey mood when words dont' - so we're not judging you]